Sharing a little of our adoption story, grace, and what happens when a prodigal returns home.
You need not be a Christian to build a house, feed the hungry, or heal the sick. There is only one thing the world cannot do. It cannot offer grace.– Philip Yancey’s What ‘s So Amazing About Grace? (affiliate link)
WHEN A PRODIGAL RETURNS HOME
If you have been a reader here for long, you might already know some of our adoption story.
It’s been a challenging and fulfilling road in a lot of ways.
The recent challenge was when our 15-year-old got into some trouble and decided that running away would be the answer to his problems.
Obviously, it’s a nightmare not knowing where your child is; wondering if they are safe.
Thankfully, he willingly returned to school 24 hours later, looking tired and worn out.
The school contacted us to see what we wanted to do. Do we want to pick him up now or wait until after school?
WHAT TO DO WHEN A PRODIGAL RETURNS?
After The Mister and I talked about it, we decided that we would give him a little time to deal with issues he had there and go see him at lunch. We also didn’t want to scare him off.
When we went to see him, we all tearfully embraced.
But while he was still a long way his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him, he ran to his son threw his arms around him and kissed him. –Luke 15:20
What’s interesting about this passage is, the only thing the son did was to come home. He hadn’t made his confession or any promises yet. The father just wanted to see his son was alive and well.
In the parable (story), the son then confesses to his dad and yet the father doesn’t talk about what he should have done, what the rules will be in the future, or any of the heartache he experienced.
“The Fatted Calf” Moment
But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Lets have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found. –Luke 15:22-24
Our son loves Taco Bell. L-O-V-E-S it!
We decided this would be the “fatted calf” moment …we would take him his favorite meal. Of course, there is a little nagging in the back of your mind that wonders if you are rewarding this negative behavior. But the realities are…would a kid go and runaway for fast food? Probably not. Running away is generally a decision made in fear. But in either case, we decided to try and follow the principles laid out in this parable – as this is how our Heavenly Father shows us love.
The next part of the story/parable surely will deal with the new rules, where he can and can’t go, and /or how the son never disobeyed again.
Not even close. Actually it deals with the other son who has bitterness in his heart celebrating his brother’s disobedience and not his own loyalty to his father.
The father’s reaction?
My son, the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found. –Luke 15:31-32
PRODIGAL RETURNS LESSONS
We never learn if the son “sinned no more” (isn’t that interesting?), but we did learn how to handle when a prodigal returns:
- Embrace and be filled with compassion.
- Celebrate /”Fattened Calf Moment”
- Encourage other family members to show love and not hold onto bitterness.
Of course, rules, counseling, and boundaries are part of our story but for now:
WE ARE REJOICING; OUR SON WAS LOST AND IS NOW FOUND!
**This is our personal story and how we dealt with our situation. Of course, every family is different. If you need more information on dealing with a teen running away, look to your local community for professional help.
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